wrt to dismissal, disregard, demonzing and ALL those good things. Some of it sounds oddly familiar...
Jill Brenneman writes: “We are deeply concerned by the rigid ways in which the complex issues of feminism and pornography are portrayed. In the broader society as well as within academic and feminist frameworks, there is a lot of disagreement about the extent to which pornography reflects and promotes sexism and violence.”
Andrea Lavigne writes: You mention the broader society as if this broader society is some gender neutral egalitarian international community.
Anti-porn feminists are against rigid sex roles bestowed upon us by the patriarchy, the broader oppressive, male chauvinist society in which you subscribe to, Jill. Sex roles are rigid for the fact that they are patriarchally based on private ownership, class division, hierarchy, male supremacy, inheritance via the male line, a male God, sexual discrimination, etc…. It is the anti-porn feminism who maintain non-rigid sex roles. In fact, any deviation from anti-porn feminism’s non-rigid sex roles toward patriarchal sex roles is a direction toward the most extreme rigidity. Anti-porn feminism is to non-rigidity what patriarchy is to rigidity. Any deviation away from anti-porn feminism is a move away from true sexual liberation, toward sexual repression/oppression. The disagreement in which you speak about is really a disagreement between anti-porn feminists and so-called pro-porn feminists. The disagreement is amongst those who claim to be feminists, but are really sex liberals who really are not feminists, but people who have co-opted feminism. These “pro-porn” feminists really subscribe to traditional patriarchal standards of female sexuality. Amongst true feminists, there is no substantial disagreement. The so-called pro-porn feminists are really the lackeys and apologists of the patriarchy.
Furthermore, I should not have to put the words anti-porn in front of the word feminism to distinguish me from so-called feminists. To be a feminist is in part to be anti-porn amongst other elements that make up feminism. Within true feminism, there is no room for pro-porn. For the sake of the feminist movement being high-jacked by “pro-porn feminists”, “pro-sex feminists, or sexual liberals, I will make the distinction and keep the anti-porn words in front of the word feminism. A person can’t be a pro-porn feminist anymore than s/he can be a pro-meat vegan.
Jill writes: “Though this conference is about pornography, none of the presenters on the agenda are performers in the pornography industry. Various important voices are excluded from the list of presenters, such as sex workers, feminists and scholars with opposing views about pornography, and advocates for the legitimization of consensual sex work.”
Andrea writes: One doesn’t have to be a “sex worker” to have an objective opinion on the oppressive influence patriarchy has on our sexuality. Secondly, you don’t know whether or not the conference presenters ever performed sex work or intimately know someone else who has. You don’t know the historical plight of those who presented at the conference. Thirdly, all of us women are seasoned into the sex trade to some degree whether entered into the sex trade or not at some point or degree. You can’t say a “sex worker”, is going to be more objective about pornography, than a non-“sex worker”. An objective interpretation of the sex trade by a “sex worker” or other, no matter what, requires in someone a high degree of liberation from internalization of oppression. This would be someone most likely in a refuse and resist mode. There is no such thing as legitimate consensual sex work under patriarchy. Consensual implies making a decision free from coercion. When a human being is reduced to a body, objectification to sexually service another, whether or not there is consent, violation of the human being has taken place. In the American legal system, consent has become the defining factor in determining whether violation has occurred. In this way the human experience and self is reduced to will, intent or consent, as if that is all that is involved in violation. In this way, liberal legal theory does not consider the oppressive condition of class domination which invokes consent.Anyway, “sex worker” implies a simplistic employer / employee relationship. Just like you would not reduce the relationship between a domestic batterer and survivor of domestic violence to one of employer / employee relationship, you would not be correct to reduce the pimp/prostitute relationship to a simplistic employer / employee relationship.
Jill writes: “Furthermore, the genre called “feminist pornography” is not included on the agenda. This genre of pornography is inspired by feminist principles, such as gender equality, bodily freedom, and mutual sexual pleasure. Women play a major role in producing this genre of pornography, so this genre is not produced just by men for a predominately male target audience.”
Andrea writes: There is no such thing as feminist pornography. The term pornography, porno- means whore. Feminist pornography is an oxymoron. Just because pornography is made by women does not mean that it is feminist pornography. For example, Boink magazine, founded by a “sex positive” woman is suppose to display “egalitarian” sexuality. But, when you do an analysis of the magazine, it has a stark resemblance to the same old tired patriarchal genderistic ethics / portrayals of female and male sexuality. Boink caters exactly to a male target audience, even though it’s founder is female.
Jill writes: “…we contend that conferences such as this one must be more balanced in the name of academic integrity. Though the organizers and presenters of this conference have the right to their perceptions, it is important to understand that their attitudes toward pornography do not reflect the views of all sex workers, feminists, and scholars.”
Andrea writes: You mention that this conference has to be more balanced in the name of academic integrity. Wow. Earlier you had a beef about academia, now you want academic integrity. Anyway, the patriarchal pornographer’s have a long history where only their voice was heard, and heard loud. The voices of anti-porn feminists at an anti-porn conference once a year does not even come near to the loud mouth pornographers that we have to contend with all year around. Even if you wrote to your local pornographers to cut their sexist bullshit in half, their loud mouths would still muffle out the voices of anti-porn feminists. You want balance, go tell your pornographer buddies this. You and your buddies need to stop infiltrating and co-opting the feminist movement once and for all.
Andrea Lavigne
Friday, April 06, 2007
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Any deviation away from anti-porn feminism is a move away from true sexual liberation, toward sexual repression/oppression.
This sounds more like a cult than a political movement. It's not just intolerant, it's unhealthy.
Where'd you find this, RE?
Ravenmn:
http://feministlawprofs.law.sc.edu/?p=1622
" The disagreement is amongst those who claim to be feminists, but are really sex liberals who really are not feminists, but people who have co-opted feminism. These “pro-porn” feminists really subscribe to traditional patriarchal standards of female sexuality. Amongst true feminists, there is no substantial disagreement. The so-called pro-porn feminists are really the lackeys and apologists of the patriarchy."
Does this make anyone else think of the no true Scotsman fallacy? If the word "True" does all the work, you haven't said anything at all.
I'm totally shocked the professors would write something like that. I usually find that professors are much more tolerant than random people on the street of differences in viewpoints and not holding to orthodoxy. Then again, Catherine MacKinnon was a professor too.
aiyiiieeeeeeee!!
Yikes, I read most of that thread, but I just couldn't keep going. I can only take so much mental illness in one day.
It's a common thread though. Many people blame the portrayal of sex and nudity for a variety of bad behaviors, and especially for the misfortune that sometimes befalls participants.
They can say Patriarchy a hundred times, but I think we all know where their puritanism comes from. Especially on this Good Friday.
The most ridiculous bitcompared sex trade workers with drug addicts, and anti-porn conferences with addict anonymous conferences. I hadn't realized that being a sex trade worker impairs one's judgment.
I like Jill's statement as follows:
"[T]he continuing effort to link sexual harassers and racists to sex workers and sex worker rights activists is discrediting to your argument. Who are you trying to reach with this? Do you really think this kind of faux affiliation is going to cause sex workers to suddenly leave the industry? Or the men hiring the sex workers to stop hiring them? Or the social conditions to change? Who is selling you this correlation of egregious examples of misogyny and racism being related to inviting a sex worker rights activist? You seriously may want to stop playing this hand. It only illustrates the absolute weakness of your argument and further drives all but your radical feminist believers from your message. If you are preaching to the choir, great. You are succeeding."
This is my frustration with the anti-porn movement -- what do they hope to achieve? They will not cut down the demand. It's immutable. They therefore will not cut down the supply, which will react based on the demand, in a few instances shaping the demand to a small degree.
I wasn't at the conference so may be talking out of my butt, but does anyone who was there know if there were any specific action plans? I haven't seen any mention of this.
My point isn't that there SHOULD be action plans, but that I think they're impossible, so why waste time. Jill's focus on sex workers' rights makes sense as the only realistic strategy for attacking problems with the industry. There is not going to be any reduction, based on anything these conferences do, on numbers, sales, etc. It's not going away. But there could be reduction in problems women face in the industry, if these issues were brought forward at such events.
Unfortunately, based on Jill's experience, it appears that this won't happen.
So, "Well, fuck them, they would never invite us to a conference!!" was really an excuse to say that even if they were invited, they wouldn't show up, because so much as being seen in public with that type would ruin their reputation?
How high school is that?
*blinkblinkblink*
Um... yeah.
Anti-porn feminists are against rigid sex roles bestowed upon us by the patriarchy, the broader oppressive, male chauvinist society in which you subscribe to, Jill.
On second skim through, I'm wondering if this isn't the crux of the problem. Note the "you" in the sentance about "society in which you subscribe to".
It really should be an "us". It's not like there's an auto get-out-of-patriarchy-free card by disliking porn.
What surprises me most in all that is how strange it is for anyone who identifies as any sort of radical or any sort of feminist would use language of "objectivity" or claim that someone whose actually experienced a form of oppression is not more qualified to talk about it than an outsider.
my mind boggles.
Not read it all yet, but, why do they always have to have my name?!
I'm pretty sure that they do think that they're somehow bringing down the patriarchy vie these conferences, or that the system would crumble without porn. What I still don't understand is the actual process by which they think is going to happen. Magic?
The patriarchy existed before porn. I'm pretty sure it could still exist without it.
Gee, Ren....what a nice distillation of everything that is so totally wrong, reactionary, and outright fascistic about antipornradfem theory and practice.
I mean...these people have the unmitigated gall to lecture Jill Brenneman on who a "real feminist" should be...while all along allying themselves with the most right-wing (even openly antifeminist) activists known to mankind?? I guess that Judith Reisman, John Court, Pope Benedict XVI, and Alberto Gonzales are acceptable radical feminists now, even with their broader right-wing policies, because they ape APRF rhetoric on eliminating porn??
And here's a fucking clue for you, Ms. Lavigne, just for your notion that "feminist pornography" is only a misnoner and an oxymoron: Candida Royalle is a woman and an activist who supports the basic fundamental rights of women as equal beings. That alone makes her a full-blown feminist. The fact that she happens to make hardcore erotic movies that attempt to emphasize women's pleasure, and actually CHALLENGE the very "patriarchial" notions of sexual relations that you claim to oppose so stridently, does NOT in any way diminish her status as a feminist. But of course, her basic sin is that she actually acknowledges that women might just happen to LIKE sex with some men, even -- O, the horror -- pursue sex for its own pleasure.
I'm so sorry, Andrea, if that violates your cult theory of women as natural victims and brainless sexbots needing you to rescue them from their own desires....but the truth sometimes tends to break through such windy rhetoric as yours.
What's really galling for me, though, is that Jill isn't really THAT radical or even as "pro-porn" as Andrea's rhetoric so implies; at the most, she accepts the right of sex workers to think for themselves, and she's very critical (if not outright opposed) to the present structure and output of most modern porn. But never mind that....since she dared to leave the cult and actually think for herself and listen to real sex workers; I guess that that's more than enough to allow the true believers to drop the hammer on her as a heretic and an infidel.
I as a sex radical and a pro-sex feminist supporter (and a Leftist who actually thinks and believes in justice and equality) would no more want to be in the same room as the likes of Andrea Lavigne as I would want to be with David Duke or Rush Limbaugh. In my mind, they are the worst enablers of the Right, and are to be opposed as such.
Un-fuck the fucking lot of 'em, I say.
(Yes, I am THAT pissed off.)
Anthony
I'm totally shocked the professors would write something like that.
wait wait Lavigne thingie is a professor?! i thought Blartow was just giving them both space to vent.
deoridhe: I think it's kind of like Calvinism: merely doing good works and following protocol does not guarantee salvation, you must be among the Elect; still if you -don't- toe the line you're -definitely- fucked, so best not to take any chances.
"wait wait Lavigne thingie is a professor?! i thought Blartow was just giving them both space to vent."
OK. I just saw the "Law professors" in the URL and it engaged my freakout drive.
"In fact, any deviation from anti-porn feminism’s non-rigid sex roles toward patriarchal sex roles is a direction toward the most extreme rigidity."
Is it just me, or is this just one whopper of a self-contradictory statment?
"I wasn't at the conference so may be talking out of my butt, but does anyone who was there know if there were any specific action plans? I haven't seen any mention of this."
I seem to remember from the Catherine MacKinnon interview that BitchLab linked to awhile back, that she wanted another go at trying to get her ordinance past the courts.
Quoting Trinity:
[i]I'm totally shocked the professors would write something like that. I usually find that professors are much more tolerant than random people on the street of differences in viewpoints and not holding to orthodoxy. Then again, Catherine MacKinnon was a professor too. [/i]
Well....I wish that I could say that I was surprised, but I'm not.
That's the basic M.O. for Ann Bartow; rather than attack her critics and critics of APRF theory herself, she allows her brigade of posters to do the dirty work for her while she plays the "good cop". Keeps her hands free for the real good stealth tactics...like threatening to out her critics.
(BTW. you do know that Queer Dewd is back and running, do you??)
Anthony
>>"In fact, any deviation from anti-porn feminism’s non-rigid sex roles toward patriarchal sex roles is a direction toward the most extreme rigidity."
Is it just me, or is this just one whopper of a self-contradictory statment? >>
I was sure the author was taking the piss when I first read that. you can't parody that shit.
Is it just me, or is this just one whopper of a self-contradictory statment?
Nah nah, it's just almost gibberish - patriarchal sex norms are rigid, and radfem sex norms are non-rigid, therefore any move away from radfem sex norms (which are non-rigid) are moves towards rigidity.
It all makes sense, but it's sophistry so is essentially useless as part of any theory that's supposed to be relevent to anything.
Instead of trying to make sense of half of that stuff, I'll just sing:
Byakee, byakee, fly me through space
take me far away from this place
byakee byakee what must I do
to go for a ride with you
byakee byakee please heed my calls
i've done the spells, I've done them all
out of tartarian darkness come and fly me away from here
I don't know how to describe you
to see you is truly a mind blowing thing
not molds, growths or ants are quite like you nor partially decomposed human beings
*screams*
byakee byakee now that you're here
I've changed my mind, i'm filled with fear
people who go with you don't reappear
so leave me at alone
I'll stay at home
I'll try to forget
that we ever met...
Seriously, there's bits that look a bit like recycled marx, if I was reading him through a shit smeared pair of spectacles, after being hit in the head with a breeze block and partially suffocated while a plate of delicious smelling food is cooked inthe next room after going a week without any food whatsoever.
It makes perfect sense, to a given degree of sense, and a certain value of "evidence", while going insane and you catch schizophrenia and a giant tentacle threates to eat you if you don't agree that it all makes perfect sense.
A thesis should not be readable only to people full of drugs.
means whore
Well yes, because the person who named it felt like that about porn.
the "don't use dictionary definitions to make a point" rule exists for the simple reason that language is defined by use, not by how the fucking ancient greeks used a term someone else used to describe something - the point of constructed words like that is to convey the opinion of the subject the namer holds about that subject.
BTW. you do know that Queer Dewd is back and running, do you??
I find the word "dewd" offensive, on account of it having hte most patriarchal of all vowels; the "E" (the only vowel not in "poutriarchy" for reasons of stealth and sockpuppetry), in it.
I would prefer you to refer to queer dewd as "Ex-()", whihc is the only truly feminist way of referring to her.
I agree with r. mildred's last statement fo' sure!
Also I agree with r. mildred, she is wise and beautiful, the greatest academic scholar that taught me alot in her very academic and authoritive class I took that was run by her which I saw at Veryinformative U.
She is the awesome and cannot be denied!
RM:
Acknowledged...though she herself did use that particular name; I'm just riffing off her.
Personally, I'd prefer her to bring back the old "Bitch|Lab" gloss myself.
Nevertheless, I do apologize.
Anthony
# A couple of brief thoughts for the sake of clarity.
1. I am not the author of the petition Ms. Lavigne references. While I am honored to be attributed as such as it is a petition I whole heartedly support. I did not write it nor was I involved in its creation. My role was being the first to sign it and as someone who forwarded it to many outlets.
2. Ms Lavigne and I have never met. I have no idea who she is. Until she forwarded her letter to me I hadn't ever even heard of her. Thus I would have to state that her analysis of me, my intentions and certainly of the sway I am thought to hold over others be taken with a grain of salt.
Lastly, I am a sex worker human rights activist. My goals are constructive social change for sex worker human rights. There is no movement to infiltrate anti sex industry feminism and I certainly can not call off anyone. I am not in a position of authority over anyone involved in this petition. I can state without question that I am not trying to infiltrate anti sex industry feminism or it's movement. I stopped doing activism from an anti sex industry perspective in 2003 and broke with a majority of the anti sex industry activists over strong differences of opinion involving the method of fostering social change and ethics related to activism. I am a reformist. Not a revolutionary. I don't see feminism as the basis of defining enemies. Webster defines feminism as Main Entry: fem•i•nism
Pronunciation: 'fe-m&-"ni-z&m
Function: noun
1 : the theory of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes
2 : organized activity on behalf of women's rights and interests
- fem•i•nist /-nist/ noun or adjective
- fem•i•nis•tic /"fe-m&-'nis-tik/ adjective
this is the basis of my view of social change. Unlike Ms. Lavigne, I see feminism not as exclusive but as inclusive.
I do hope Ms. Lavigne continues her activism and perspective. Her words are a strong message that undoubtedly will cause many to think, define their own feelings and develop their worldview and it's relationship to this issue.
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# 3/30/2007 1:23 PM beatriz mercado wrote:
This is a response to Andrea Lavigne's letter, considering I also signed the petition I felt I had a couple of comments to make:
Andrea,..
Though I did not write the letter you comment about, I did sign it, so I feel should tell you my own views.
It attracted my attention that you start off by saying that anti porn feminism, or “pure” feminism if I understood right what you express about feminism being anti porn by definition, is non rigid while whatever opposes to it, namely what you call patriarchy, is rigid without option. I can’t help but thinking that thought looks very rigid for a movement who claims, in your own words, to be the essence of non rigidity. I seriously distrust your affirmation that anti porn feminism is non rigid, when you say only a few lines below that “ Amongst true feminists, there is no substantial disagreement” . It would be the first case I know of a movement made by human beings with all their diversity, granted there’s no rigidity and no imposed views, where there is no important disagreement. Your claim of being opposed to rigidity gets increasingly difficult to believe due to the rigidity shown in your own statements.
Then I went down and read “you don’t know whether or not the conference presenters ever performed sex work or intimately know someone else who has” as a response to the paragraph in the letter which states that several voices were excluded from the conference, sex workers among others. You’re right in what you’re saying, personally I don’t know whether any of the presenters has ever been or is currently a sex worker. But then I asked myself, wouldn’t it have been only too easy for any of the participants to say “thank you for the letter, don’t worry, we did include the voices of sex workers and other views different from ours too, and though there were many areas of disagreement, we found some points in common and got to understand each other’s position a little bit better.” But, unfortunately, I haven’t yet read anything like that. Which is sad, since my belief is all meetings to discuss ideas should be done assuming no one has the absolute truth, the truth is a figure in a puzzle which will be discovered only when everyone adds her/his piece to the puzzle, meaning we all hold a part of the truth. Even the person you consider your oponent has something to teach you. If anything, I think that’s something that we, as humanity, should’ve learned from the experience of the patriarchal system that you mention and which I also dislike. In patriarchy there’s only one voice, the authority. Whoever disagrees has only to remain silent and obey the patriarch. There’s only one truth, the truth stated by the authority. Any other truth is heresy. For years I’ve believed that something better than Patriarchy meant also a system or movement where anyone would be free to express their own truth, with the only condition
Beatriz Mercado Clinical Pharmacist Chile
Andrea Lavigne is listed on the Toledo prostitution conference announcement from last year as an MSW, psycho therapist.
Andrea Lavigne is listed on the Toledo prostitution conference announcement from last year as an MSW, psycho therapist
Yeah psycho therapist, indeed!
I'm really debating whether or not I feel up to tearing into Lavigne's shit for real. I'm am so sick of this bull about the feminist movement. In fact, I'm beyond sick of it. At this point it would be pretty much laughable if these people weren't so pathetic that I'd feel bad about it later.
Hello! There is no one feminist movement. There are MANY feminist movements. Feminism existed before these folks were ever born, before this nation was created, before folks even branched out to the parts of the world where these people come from.
It's really the Christopher Columbus Syndrome at its worst.
I have to admit, after Andrea sent me an email with her response, my first action was to to google her. I figured her letter had to be a parody of radical feminism. But no, it is real. She actually wrote this.
It is so far from reality it almost left me speechless when I realized this wasn't someone satire but actually the analysis of me by a radical feminist psycho therapist.
"Hello! There is no one feminist movement. There are MANY feminist movements. Feminism existed before these folks were ever born, before this nation was created, before folks even branched out to the parts of the world where these people come from.
It's really the Christopher Columbus Syndrome at its worst."
I completely agree with you. Basically the tactic is to deem anything that doesn't fit with your world view to be false, or derailing, or anti woman.
at first i read that as the Christopher Guest syndrome, which actually, i kind of dig it.
"you are all just BASTARD "FEMINISTS," and i'm gonna go home and bite my pillow!"
seriously, the woman is off her head. um, I don't know if she realizes, but "feminism" has been around since before anyone was even -talking- about this shit; there is no pure template; people were a bit busy talking about such things as y'know suffrage and abolition of slavery and so on. and yeah, there was Temperance. then as now, that sort of thing was heavily interwoven with a reactionary Christian movement, yanno? there's a fair amount of difference between say Carry Nation and Rosa Luxemborg.
there is also a long history of sex workers agitating for their rights (like, going back at least to the Middle Ages, no doubt earlier, I'm, just thinking of a paper I once did on medieval prostitutes' guilds); it may or may not have gone under the title "feminism," but it damn sure goes under womens' rights as far as I'm concerned.
and Christ on a pony, people like that giving "therapeutic" advice to other people makes me want to bang my head on a wall. what happens if someone comes in whose problems don't match up with her rigid worldview?
I like the IDEA of the feminist law profs site but have yet to find much of the content inspiring or interesting. The recent "No Crying in Law School," directed at female law students, is patronizing beyond belief.
"Yeah psycho therapist, indeed!"
I agree as well. I've been talking recently to my own therapist about pornography, about how I started using it with an old lover and how much fun we had. How I stopped using it out of new-found feminist zealotry a while back. the slow process from something I remembered being a fun and enriching experience my old lover and I engage in every few weeks, to something I used alone the reminded me of those times. To shame and guilt over what I could use when and how, to nearly purging everything feeling as if I'd spent years collecting the blood of my sisters. To deep shame and guilt about anything sexual. To coming out of that period in my life and going back to things that had enriched my erotic life, including some of my old pornography.
If I had a psychotherapist who saw that as bad, and as an abandonment of feminism, I really think I'd still be struggling. Not because I think I have to use it to be sexually healthy--I'm sure that I don't--but because that attitude that it makes you a false feminist, that belief that attention to your own sexuality makes you obsess and frivolous, would have held me back terribly. Having a therapist who instead understands how I used it then, why used it then, and why I have gone back to it now has been massively helpful to me. I can't imagine how unhealthy I would be right now if my therapist were that kind of close minded person.
"I do not think 'rigid' means what you think it means."
BB: heh.
"Yes it does, and that's all there is to it. In your heart you know I'm right."
OG: FLP is...yeah. among other things, the home of Ann Bartow, who has a rather um interesting online history. google her together with zuzu of feministe sometime if you're not familiar.
and yeah, i think i saw that "No Crying in Law School" thing, or at any rate -something- about the hard puritan i mean feminist work ethic it entailed and how T.A.'s need to suck it up or some damn thing. no "patriarchal" ideals or hierarchy there! nope nope no
it's sort of the verbal equivalent of those suits with the awful floppy bowties that were popularized for "professional" women back when such a thing was still a novel concept
http://laurelin.wordpress.com/2007/04/01/not-playing-nice-today-some-pro-porn-feminists/
Post 40, another shining example of the vast understanding that some rad fems feel they have about me. Again, someone who assumes they know my motives, sees conspiracy in every corner.
I wonder if it occurs to these people that they have never met me? That they haven't even done their homework and are so blatantly off in their "jill brenneman analysis" it is almost funny.
Sometime tonight I'll post a response there.
Jill - I had an initial "this is a joke, right? C'mon, guys, stop laughing" response, too. Then I read it again and realised that not only was there no irony intended, the person who wrote that wouldn't recognise irony if they tripped over it.
The sad thing is I've seen that before. I went to college with people like that. Hell, I had professors like that.
Once again - OK, say we get rid of all porn. Look, a porn-free world!
This brings down the patriarchy how, exactly?
Also...the process by which one receives a licence to practise as a therapist is usually fairly stringent. In most places it involves submitting to analysis oneself. How did the whole megalomania and paranoid delusions thing slip through the net with this one?
that "seasoning" business, btw, I remember reading in one or another, possibly several, of the essays in that l'il anthology, "The Sexual Liberals and the War on Feminism," ed. Janice Raymond and Dorchen Leidholdt.
btw, it looks like this has some familiar figures heading it.
octogalore said (sorry octogalore - not picking on you lately, honest! this is just interesting): "This is my frustration with the anti-porn movement -- what do they hope to achieve? They will not cut down the demand. It's immutable."
If I translate that into:
This is my frustration with the anti-war movement -- what do they hope to achieve? They will not cut down the aggression. It's immutable.
How does that sound?
Acceptable?
Like we should all just sit back and accept things however horrible they are?
" My point isn't that there SHOULD be action plans, but that I think they're impossible, so why waste time."
There are a great many people who despise what happens in war and they fight for what they believe in - impossible as it may seem. It might be a waste of time now, in that it doesn't achieve immediate results but, for me at least, it's providing the groundwork for others to build on.
The notion of sex workers rights - legitimate as it may be within the Trades Union movement - is akin to the notion of the US deciding what the acceptable political regime of another country should be.
More Jill Brenneman transgressions,
Sam writes:
#
”Men who exploit, oppress and commit violence against women are responsible for their own actions.”
They sure are.
”The argument that sex workers are responsible for the actions of perpetrators of exploitation, oppression and violence is flawed”
You’re right, it is a flawed argument. That’s why it’s good thing no one said that.
You’re shifting the subject midstream. You said the sex worker’s rights movement is one that “empowers women with rights for their own bodies”. In response Lya Kahlo said that pro-prostitution women pushing for legalization and furthering legitimization of men’s right to control women’s sexuality has ramifications for other women, and she’s right that it does.
Then you suddenly changed the subject from the women in the sex worker rights movement it was to sex workers themselves as well as the johns, pimps and traffickers that enslave prostituted women. Though you’ve written many words about how radical feminists oppress sex workers, this marks the first time the role of men in oppression women has been brought up – and you brought it up insincerely only to bash radical feminists, not to hold those men accountable for the extreme amounts of harm they’re doing to women.
No one here has blamed sex workers for violence against sex workers, so you had to replace “sex workers” for the actual subject being discussed that was “sex workers who advocate for prostitution legalization”. The two are not the same.
”Saying that sex workers and what they are doing has ramifications on women rather than placing blame on the perpetrator is…”
Here’s another switcheroo that substitutes talking about women like you who promote prostitution as just a job, aka prostitution legalization advocates, with all prostituted women. Considering the vast majority of prostituted women disagree with your goal of legalizing and more normalization of prostitution, that’s an especially galling substitution.
”The perpetrator of violence against women is responsible for themselves.”
Sounds great. So may I ask why all pro-sex work advocates’ proposals and actions revolve around modifying prostituted women’s lives and behaviors instead of modifying prostitute-using men’s lives and behaviors?
Unions, bad date lines, STD checks, panic-buttons, “whore college”, etc are all about changing women’s behaviors in the hope that doing so will eventually change the way men mistreat prostituted women. It’s trickle down theory relying on prostituted women to change men indirectly instead of going right to the source of the problem that is prostituting men with an inflated sense of entitlement to women’s bodies. We’ve already got laws against raping and murdering people that tricks, pimps and traffickers ignore because the misogynist culture we live in makes these laws ignorable. Men’s assumed right to access women’s bodies anytime, anyway they want is the lynchpin of rape culture, and prostitution is rape culture distilled to its purest form.
Comment by Sam — April 6, 2007 @ 7:00 pm
I'm sorry Jill... but can you be a bit more specific in your 'who said what' in your posts and what your counter-arguments are, please?
Yegads. I found myself agreeing with you there...till I realised you were just re-posting stuff Sam had said.
Witchy – no offense taken, although I appreciate your clarifying this. And none is meant in my questions to you.
Like the following. You compared my statement that the anti-porn movement will not succeed in eliminating or substantively reducing porn, so therefore what’s the point, to a statement that the anti-war movement is similarly futile.
I have to admit, I’m scratching my head a bit, because this seems like an uncharacteristic softball. Our current war may be difficult or impossible for activists to affect, although I do believe there are timing issues that can be presented and argued. But anti-war activists do have agendas, and ways to reach people who can affect policy going forward.
What’s the comparator in the anti-porn movement, pray tell? Certain kinds of porn are already illegal. The other kinds – there are multiple first amendment issues involved, and when you add that to the demand, I do not think even “providing the groundwork for others to build on” is a realistic goal. The cost benefit analysis is much thornier than that in the war scenario. There is no real way to prove that eliminating porn would save lives, or even be a net positive. It would lead to a slippery slope of elimination of numerous modes of communication. Finally, there would be no way to control the black market. None of these issues have a comparator in the war scenario.
“The notion of sex workers rights - legitimate as it may be within the Trades Union movement - is akin to the notion of the US deciding what the acceptable political regime of another country should be.”
So, the idea of protecting rights of a group of women in the U.S. is like dictating a foreign regime? Do you see sex workers and their industry as a foreign territory that you’d prefer to keep a graceful distance from? Even if you believe the industry is entirely corrupt (which is not my position), wouldn’t you agree that women should be trusted to choose among evils, and that it’s worth our while to include these women's rights among all women’s rights, as they are people too?
Determining which women are more deserving of having our right protected than others smacks of guess what. 1984? The patriarchy, perhaps?
aiyieeeeee
okay, look:
The core assumption, or one of them, in anti-war thinking is that killing other people (which war -inevitably- involves) is inherently a Bad Thing.
The core assumption in anti-porn activism is...what?
That rape is inherently bad? Check.
That economic exploitation of women is inherently bad? Check.
That taking pictures or films of people having sexual activity for the purposes of getting off is inherently bad?
Because that last one, I don't share.
In fact, sometimes I think that can be a -good- thing.
Hence the difference.
Or so then we get to, "well, perhaps in a post-patriarchal society, we -might- have such a thing as non-oppressive porn/filmed erotica, but until such time, it's simply not possible."
I -have- heard that argument in almost so many words.
In which case, well so now: who's doing the "well it's technically possible but damn improbable, so why even bother"?
Yes, I know: sexual expression is frivolous and has nothing to do with the Very Serious Business of saving lives and preventing abuse.
Except maybe it does, sometimes.
Witchy-woo, -months- ago I suggested a read of Dorothy Allison's "Skin:" ever pick it up? Or anything penned by a sex-positive feminist, I mean besides in the context of the online wranglings? Curious. Because we seem to be going over and over and over the same bloody arguments, like from square one. I mean, I'm trying to do my homework on this end, but...this gets tiring.
Witchy-woo said:
"The notion of sex workers rights - legitimate as it may be within the Trades Union movement - is akin to the notion of the US deciding what the acceptable political regime of another country should be."
Absolute and total non-sequitur.
How is the concept of "sex worker rights" in any way analogous even to the concept of humanitarian interventionism?
If anything, the radfem preference for "saving" sex workers whether they want saving or not (as opposed to supporting self-organized movements for sex workers rights) has some analogy to the idea of intervening in other countries for their own good.
It certainly has the same problems with benign reasoning for the intervention serving as a figleaf for less-than-benign underlying motivations.
I do not want to claim a safe and comfortable life for myself that is purchased at the cost of some other woman's needs or desires. But over and over again I see us being pushed to do just that...
...Moreover, just as I was terrified of addressing my own racism, so, too, other women were afraid of stepping into the deep and messy waters of class and sexual desire. If we get into this, what might we lose? If we expose this, what might our enemies do with it? And what might it mean? Will we have to throw out all the theory we have built with such pain and struggle? Will we have to start over? How are we going to try to make each other safe while we work it through?
My first response to these questions was that it was too hard, too deep, too frightening. It was only when I took my second breath that I began to think of going ahead anyway...
Simple answers, reductionist politics, are the most prone to compromise, to saying we're addressing the essential issue and all that other stuff can slide. It is, in reality, people who slide.
Throughout my life somebody has always tried to set the boundaries of who and what I will be allowed to be: if working class, an intellectual, upwardly mobile type who knows her place, or at least the virtues of gratitude; if a lesbian, an acceptable lesbian, not too forward about the details of her sexual practice...What is common to those boundary lines is that their msot destructive power lies in what I can be persuaded to do to myself--the walls of fear, shame, and guilt I can be encouraged to build in my mind...
I have learned through great sorrow that all systems of oppression feed on public silence and private terrorization. But few do so more forcefully than the systems of sexual oppression, and each of us is under enormous pressure to give in to their demands.
...Looking again at our silences, the sources of our fears, is both a way to see where the greatest damage is being done, as well as an opportunity for coalition and shared understanding. I have seen that when I speak as a lesbian about my own struggles to understand and publicly acknowledge the full meaning of my love for women, straight women nod back at me. I have heard them reveal their own terrible secrets, their own impossible desires. For all of us, it is the public expression of desire that is embattled, any deviation from what we are supposed to want and be, how we are supposed to behave. The myth prevails that good girls--even modern, enlightened, liberal or radical varieties--don't erally have such desires.
***
And so here's Renegade, for example, and why not; and she has, from day one, been very very clear about this being -her desire.- And yet everyone from misogynist trolls to religious scolds to yep some radical feminists have nearly imploded from the sheer effort to make sure that Ren be understood in the context of the Framework:
She's doing it for the men.
She doesn't REALLY think or believe what she thinks or believes, neither do any of us--hey, Jo just said it in the other post. -You know it's wrong.-
Except, what if we -really mean it?-
Well then, people like Ren, people like trin, hell I'm sure people like me, we're just...freaks. Anomalies. Ren's a "narcissist" (hi there), a "soulless" broken person, at best some sort of statistical Guiness Record breaker; and y'all are just telling her this over and over and fucking -over- again for...her own good, is it?
And the good of the Movement, of course.
...God, I don't know. Do we even speak the same language, some of us? Some days...
...it occurs to me, having written all that, that the heat in those last couple of posts is actually not coming from the issue at hand, but my own feelings about the shit that's gone down around here these past couple of weeks.
...yeah. witchy-woo: well, I said this more or less in the other post, but you know: it's up to Ren to say, but from where I'm sitting, just based on all I've been reading in public, at least, I think you may have some stuff to work out, with her, before y'all get back to that civil relationship; in case you haven't noticed, there's some bad feeling around here, and no, I don't think getting on with the "civil" debate as though nothing's happened is gonna work this time.
People are angry. And hurt. You know it?
I have to admit, I love the Christopher Columbus Syndrome concept. Damn, that is good. There is like a whole thesis possible in that concept
I am a reformist. Not a revolutionary
*nods*
at least until I have a -really clear sense- of the goals, never even mind tactics, of any given Revolution, I am a reformist. mostly I just want to make sure that if I'm doing work for others, it's work the others actually want me to do. "overthrowing the System" often tends to entail doing things "for others' own good," on account of "we know better," I have noticed.
anyway: i find the idea that sex workers' rights somehow equates to endorsing prostitution seriously off. There is such a concept as "harm reduction," you know? There are needle-exchange programs for heroin users; does that amount to "yay heroin addiction!" Some people think so. The kind of people who think "Just Say No" is a plan of action. The kind of people who think abstinence-only programs in schools are the best, indeed only, way to reduce pregnancy and STD's among students.
-Because it's more important that people not do The Really Bad Thing than making sure there's a minimization of people getting hurt or killed.-
Cassandra,
I laughed when you said you thought it was a joke and then realized it wasn't and was reminded of college professors like that. Because so many are college professors or studying to be. Many others thought Andrea Lavignes post was a joke at first too.
It is an astonishing statement from someone who is supposed to be trained as a psychotherapist. What's scary is how much more bizarre I've seen of this shit. There was the radical feminist effort to make animals part of "systems of prostitution" and liberate them from bestiality porn,
That, the genius of a feminist named Beth Ribet. I remember being challenged on my elitist attitude because I didn't see animals as being prostituted victims through bestiality porn. The fight to liberate animals from systems of prostitution. That had to be a highwater mark for absurd theory.
That, the genius of a feminist named Beth Ribet. I remember being challenged on my elitist attitude because I didn't see animals as being prostituted victims through bestiality porn. The fight to liberate animals from systems of prostitution.
-silent boggling-, then:
at least tell me she was an across-the-boards animal rights' activist?
anyway i figure most anti-porn folks would probably be "elitist" by that definition, but i'm just guessing.
hey, Jill, long as you're here: has anyone else said to you that the SWOP site doesn't load?
It could just be me; I seem to be experiencing serious lagtime with a number of sites, lately; probably time to update browser or system or something. just thought i'd mention it, though, because i can't seem to get it to load at all.
which swop site? SWOP East seems to be normal. I don't have anything to do with the SWOP-USA site.
As for Beth Ribet, no she wasn't, to my knowledge, an animal rights activist. My understanding is she was a strong opponent of PETA.
there were planks in the Beth Ribet vision.
This is one day out of the year when no one shall buy or sell anyone for sex, including animals used in bestiality. We specifically call on men to stop buying girls, boys, and women in prostitution. This day is part of a much larger struggle for an end to violence and oppression based on gender, race and ethnicity, class, religion, disability, age, size, sexual orientation, nationality, and species.
We are calling on Take Back The Night rallies to take up prostitution and pornography as violence against girls, boys, women, and animals.
You have a point Witchy Woo, I will be clearer in the future, or the next great jill brenneman conspiracy theory will be how I am being deliberately vague to trick radical feminists into agreeing with me.
"Yeah psycho therapist, indeed!"
The funny thing is that the old U-jin (possibly) manga with the same name came to mind the instant I read that: That was the manga with the sexual therapist who could, by twirling her impossibly large breasts in alternating direction, hypnotise her patients.
Yes, my brain made that noise also.
This is my frustration with the anti-war movement -- what do they hope to achieve? They will not cut down the aggression. It's immutable.
If you shine a light in your eyes and your pupils don't react, you've probably got concussion.
sex work is not something that can be ended through removing the troops from a country we invaded for no good reason, which is one, of the several million, reasons you comparison makes no sense in any language.
The closest analogy would to compare your inane and misogynistic bullshit not to the anti-war movement which does have ONE, very clear and easily understood, goal - to get the troops out of Iraq - but to the pro-war movement which has no clear or comprehensible goal other than to maintain the status quo of brown folks and american folks dying in their droves for some vague, and possibly monetary based result.
You see, the anti-war movement is not a generic groups for some weird universal pacifism movement as you seem to think it is (you idiot*), it is centered around specific issues, and aimed towards achieving specific goals, not trying to impose a one size fits all solution to all wars everywhere, because that wouldn't work and not only wouldn't it work, it'd cause more harm than good because not all wars are fought for hte same reasons, nor are the occuring and continuing for hte same reason, and so some solutions to end war in certain african countries would possibly exacerbate wars being committed elsewhere because it supports rather than attacks the underlying causes of warfare in various situations.
Note that I called your silly little knitting club you call radical feminism "misgynistic" up there in their attitudes towards sex workers, and note why I used that term:
The only concrete thing you guys have is to illegalise sex work, which is great, and I would personally like to whittle the bodies of the first couple of hundred dead hookers that policy produces and stab them in your eye - and they won't be killed and raped and live thier lives brutalised by the johns, oh no, the first few hundred will the ones the police get, because under patriarchy the police are professional and legal rapists and murderers of society's undesirables.
In short, why do you hate prostitutes?
* I cannot stress that epithet enough, really
IACB: "How is the concept of "sex worker rights" in any way analogous even to the concept of humanitarian interventionism?
If anything, the radfem preference for "saving" sex workers whether they want saving or not ... has some analogy to the idea of intervening in other countries for their own good."
Exactly! This is why I was struggling to make any sense of this. While there have been more reasonable (though still refutable) arguments put forth in this whole debate, this particular one is completely muddled.
Iamcuriousblue wrote:
If anything, the radfem preference for "saving" sex workers whether they want saving or not (as opposed to supporting self-organized movements for sex workers rights) has some analogy to the idea of intervening in other countries for their own good.
It certainly has the same problems with benign reasoning for the intervention serving as a figleaf for less-than-benign underlying motivations.
Absolutely! As a long time member of the anti-war movement , I agree wholeheartedly. The first thing we demand is that those in other countries have the right to self-determination. Which is why a lot of anti-war activists are not pacifists.
It's one reason why Jill's work makes so much sense to me. Start with the people where they are and do what you can to make their lives safer and better. Stop pretending you know everything and listen and learn from people who are survivors. It's not our job to teach others what to do, but to learn from them, take their knowledge to heart and pass it on.
Ren, this discussion thread is awesome. You've touched on something wonderful.
"Well then, people like Ren, people like trin, hell I'm sure people like me, we're just...freaks. Anomalies."
I actually don't mind being freak. I don't mind being different from many other people. I don't mind that my way of life doesn't work for most other people.
I do mind the endless vitriol. I mind people deciding whether someone like me is a feminist or not, when said people don't have my desires and haven't been through my experiences. I mind that I've never told them what to do or not do, watch or not watch, support or not support, but they don't accord me the same rights and the same choices as I accord them.
I mind that they respond by calling my friends and me names. I mind that they assume we're OK with rape, that people like Ginmar assume we can't tell when people hate us and people care for us.
Amongst true feminists, there is no substantial disagreement.
I just wanted to see that again.
Are we -sure- this person is for real? -Really- real? -Really?-
Jill:
I have to admit, I love the Christopher Columbus Syndrome concept. Damn, that is good. There is like a whole thesis possible in that concept.
When you're a Native American you get used to seeing it in action over and over again. The sad thing is that it's the same group of folks exhibiting it now as it was hundreds of years ago.
belledame222,
It is real, not only did she post it but Andrea was so proud of her letter that she emailed it to me the same day she posted it. That was how I found out about it. I had no idea who she was. So I looked her up, found that she was an MSW psycho therapist and had spoken at a conference in Toledo. Her email went back to her domain, so it was legit. I was so dumbfounded that she is a psycho therapist I wrote back to her stating that it had to be someone other than her that she couldn't possibly the the same woman that was a psychotherapist. She wrote back asking where I found out she was an MSW psycho therapist. I still have the email.
When I received it I figured it had to be pardody, when it wasn't I was shocked, when I found out who she was, what she did for work, then I was speechless.
Andrea's bio from the Toledo Conference
Andrea Lavigne, MSW, Psychotherapist, Detroit, MI
From pre-prostitution to post-prostitution eras: An anthropological and psychosocial approach
A number of topics will be covered: dispelling the myth that prostitution is the oldest profession, the sexual status of women in matriarchal, patriarchal, and capitalist societies, psychosocial impact of prostitution on women and children, current theoretical approaches/political trends toward prostitution.
Oh this is damn priceless-
I commented on Laurelin's post. She comes back with "geez, it's not all about what you said (which is true, issue was taken with other folk, yet its MY post she wants everyone to read), and it's TOTALLY unacceptable, the way I treated Alisalives (total ignoring of my questions about how its okay to treat abuse survivors who are not anti porn like shit) and then she closes the comment thread.
FUCKING TYPICAL...
Just goes to show....
I mean, wrt to above comment there, am I THAT fucking scary, or is their argument that fucking weak? Or is it, like it always seems, that they are PERFECTLY HAPPY TO DISH IT OUT, but when called on it, asked LEGIT questions, and what have you they HAVE to duck and run?
GAH!
yeah, that was odd.
AP:
Odd? Nah, its standard procedure I think...
I'm not sure who is the most evil Ren, You, I, Beatriz or Liberation Feminist, we all could be the daily double, $1000 answer in a Rad Fem game of Jeopardy.
This woman is the greatest evil to radical feminism,
contestants,,,,, bing....
Who is?????????/
Since you asked so nicely (oh okay then, since you asked)
- I close comment threads when they get too ranty and cost me too much of my energy. Self-preservation is important to me.
- I directed people to your post because you replied to me. I thought that was simply good manners.
- I don't have to answer every question, and as your 'reply' to me re: Alisasays doesn't actually answer my point I'm not going to. Believe me, though, if I spot anyone dismissing an pro-porn feminist's abuse, they'll catch it. I don't put up with it in any context.
- You are not fucking scary. I'll tell you what is: chewing gum. Yeuch.
- I don't believe my arguments are weak, 'fucking' or otherwise. I have stated my positions in many posts on my blog, and (to me, at least) they seem well argued and backed-up.
- don't say 'they'. This is *me* you're dealing with; no-one else.
- I didn't say 'geez'. I am much more likely to say 'crikey', 'blimey' or 'buggering bolluxing hell'.
- I dish and deal, as any short reading of my blog will show.
Thank you; I'm done.
I noticed my last post to the not playing nice blog has "disappeared" my response to Ann Bartow's blatant misrepresentations about Liberation Feminist. And the blog has closed to comments. Go figure.
So that it doesn't get lost it is on my blog www.myspace.com/jillbrenneman and also here is the sequence below.
#Ann Bartow writes below, responses from Liberation Feminist and Jill Brenneman below. It should be noted Jill Brenneman's response "disappeared" from the source blog. Source Blog
Ann Bartow Writes:
Oh for cripes sake. Who are you, Liberation Feminist, to be dictating "the job of higher education institutions"? Must all climate conferences feature speakers who deny global warming? Or are univerities "allowed" to host conferences in which everyone present agrees global warming is happening, but they disagree and want to air various viewpoints about how to address it?
Incidentally, there have been plenty of academic conferences with "pro-sex-work" speakers, which about five minutes using Google would demonstrate. Just last week CUNY held a "Women and Work 2007? conference that featured a panel on sex work. In March of 2006 the New School and a long list of prestigious universities co-sponsored a conference called Sex Work Matters (see http://www.sexworkmatters.net/ ) A couple of years ago the U of Toledo held a conference in sex work, see: http://www.hhs.utoledo.edu/socialwork/ProstitutionConference.html
But hey, why let the truth get in the way of a good sound bite, right? Sheesh.
You don't want a dialogue, you want the stage to yourself, by any means necessary.
Comment by Ann Bartow — April 8, 2007 @ 11:29 pm
End Ann Bartow Post
Liberation Feminist writes below
I recognize the right of feminists who oppose all porn to have conferences, but as mentioned in the letter in question, this conference seems to have been presented by Wheelock College rather than an anti-sex work organization. As a sex work advocate, I'm unaware of any college or university ever presenting a sex worker rights conference. There's a difference between a college or university serving as a venue for a conference and actually putting on the conference. I believe that one of the main functions of education is to expand people's minds. How is it expanding anybody's mind when a college presents only one side of a very controversial issue in which there are lots of disagreements among scholars and feminists alike? I recognize the right of studnets and faculty at colleges and universities to have their personal opinions, but it is not the job of higher education institutions to be promoting certain perspectives on pornography over all others.
Also, in reposne to these comments which say that sex work involves no brains, those comments are very elitist and demonstrates a lack of understanding about sex work.
Comment by Liberation Feminist — April 8, 2007 @ 5:03 pm
end Liberation Feminist post,
Jill Brenneman writes below in a post that "disappeared" from the original source blog.
Ann
Why would you shout at all? Why is shouting necessary? You have a different viewpoint than liberation feminist. Shouting is aggressive and presumptuous. Just because you feel your position is correct and feel that liberation feminist? position is incorrect, which I?l address that below, isn? inherently appropriate to shout. You spoke in posts above that I had been mostly civil in my posts on your board, yet apparently that goes off the table on other boards when it applies to you.
You are also misrepresenting both the truth and liberation feminist? statement. The Toledo conference you reference has speakers from various perspectives. Last year? had Sam, who posts on this list, Andrea Lavigne, a member of the Chicago Prostitution Research and Education, Claudine O Leary who works from a harm reduction perspective, along with sex worker rights activists Robyn Few and Susan Lopez Embry. It was not inherently a sex worker rights conference and certainly wasn? the equivalent of the unilaterally positioned Wheelock conference. Previous speakers at Toledo? conference on prostitution and sex work included Bill Nelson, who is Director of Minneapolis·Women? Recovery Center, www.angelfire.com/mn/fjc/index.html,
CUNY? speakers were from multiple theoretical positions fighting human trafficking, harm reduction and sex worker rights.
The March 2007 ?omen and Work 2007? conference that featured a panel on sex work could hardly be described as a sex worker rights based conference. Some of the speakers were not involved in sex industry activism, others were anti prostitution.
Ann, I? calling you out on this. You clearly distorted liberation feminist? post, you misrepresented the above conferences as being related to liberation feminist? post, which there is no relation as all of the conferences you represented in your post as representing sex worker rights were multi-theoretical, while the Wheelock conference was specifically anti porn. Had Wheelock been multi theoretical none of this discussion would have ever begun.
Before you talk about calling me out, or actually calling liberation feminist out, you may want to consider your own actions.
Ann writes·reference liberation feminist? post ?ut hey, why let the truth get in the way of a good sound bite, right? Sheesh.·
What are you kidding? Your post is a complete discredit to your statement. It is total factual misrepresentation of the conferences and how they relate to liberation feminist? post, furthermore, stating why let the truth get in the way of a good sound byte, related to liberation feminist? I would strongly advocate you ground your post in truth before making this accusation of others. The very five minutes in google that you suggest others take, is five minutes I took. It destroyed your argument.
Ann writes: ?ou don? want a dialogue, you want the stage to yourself, by any means necessary.·
You have to be kidding. Maybe there is a joke in this I? missing. You support Wheelock? one-sided conference, oppose sex worker rights petition opposing Wheelock? one-sided conference, than make this statement?
People usually resort to aggression and shouting when they can? argue the merits of their point. You self destructed. The person who blew it on truth in this thread is you. Your shouting, your aggression are just cheap theatrics and smoke and mirrors to hide that you had no case to argue.
Comment by jill brenneman ·April 9, 2007 @ 6:22 pm
laurenlin;
I've tried nice. Doesn't seem to work.
So, yeah, where's the condemnation for the crappy treatment by the anti side towards the pro side? How about mention of the way Alisalives was the initial attacker on that post? Still NO explanation out of ANYONE about why it was okay for people to treat the sexworkers who protested the event like crap and call them more or less stupid, and lastly, still, as of yet, no explanation of why it's okay to use pornographic images without the performers consent (or payment) or any REAL consideration for what they think by those who oppose the exploitation of women...
And that IS a very valid question.
I'm praying for you hun...I know you this may make you angry right now, but one day you will understand...
Because I do understand exactly where you are today.
I too, cheated on Jesus with Satan.
Satan works in cunning ways, sweety. He lays very tempting traps...and I went for the bait. Make no mistake, YOU ARE IN THE DEVIL'S GRIP, woman! So pleaseeee, pleassseee find Jesus again! Only he can save you!
Jill - Wow. That one I hadn't heard.
Just to be clear...I'm not keen on the bestiality. I do think that it's innapropriate to have sex with your Doberman, mostly because you then are assuming consent a creature with a brain so limited that it occasionally eats scissors and drinks anti-freeze. Abusive? Sure. Prostitution? Umm...OK. So someone gave the dog a biscuit and that counts as prostitution?
I think we may be stretching the conspiracy theory too far here. Pity The X Files isn't on the air any more - she might have been able to get a writing job there.
Well then, maybe we should all consider our questions unanswered an quit with this argumentation, Ren. No one, according to both sides, wants to answer each other's questions, and, for both sides, each claims the other is attacking a straw feminist. You were right. It seems that something metaphysical is keeping both sides from giving each other the respect each side thinks it deserves.
Laurelin has shut down the comment thread, and no one from their side (and Laurelin, as much as you wish to state it was "you" that all criticisms should be directed at, there is some pretty disingenuous commentary at your place from the peanut gallery) wants to engage in any sort of rational debate, for their own reasons. Either way, Ren, none of the commenters over there are engaging you and Jill here, nor are they doing anything other than responding to snippets of both your arguments as if the entire argument can be whittled down to talking points. Maybe time to let things lie? I'm not one to judge on drawing arguments out (guilty as charged), but judging from past experience, listening and understanding is not something that is going to arise out of any sort of dialog, which, at last, sort of seems impossible. No one is working from equal definitions at this point, and no one wants to alter their own definitions and prejudices. I believe I described it elsewhere as attempting to set up slip-shod tautologies and argue them as fact.
Just saying. :)
I directed people to your post because you replied to me. I thought that was simply good manners.
*cough*
"good manners" would have been addressing Ren directly in the first place.
or at least providing a direct link back, -with- trigger warning, sure, whatever;
or at minimum, if your real reason for not directly linking is gosh maybe something -else-, ("I wish to convey that my disdain for this person is such that I won't even link to her cootie-riddled blog, and/or I was sort of hoping she might not actually find it in the first place, and/or it tends to bolster my argument when people don't have the other side to refer to"), have the honesty to own it.
as for alisalives: she came in here basically -blaming Ren personally- for the abuse she suffered at the hands of her porn-watching boyfriend. What sort of response do you think she was entitled to?
is there some particular issue with the use of "fucking" as an adjective now, by the way?
and: "chewing gum?" what does that mean? you mean, like, something you scrape off your shoe with great disdain? yeah, i'd say that about sums up some peoples' attitude.
Laurelin said:
“I close comment threads when they get too ranty and cost me too much of my energy. Self-preservation is important to me.”
It is to most people. So I guess it’s fine for you to post what you know will be an inflamitory, “look what assholes THEY are” type of post then decree it too ranty when they attempt to clarify their postions or defend themselves. Oh, just so ranty! As if Jill, Renegade and Liberation Feminist outright attacked you or called you names or condemned your views and behavior or anything! Which is hardly the treatment they received. Oh yes, but thanks to all the people who supported you!
”- I directed people to your post because you replied to me. I thought that was simply good manners.”
Yes, because it was so stealth from the get go who you were referring to…if you believed in good manners you would have commented here first or linked originally or, due to her oh so traumatizing logo, initially said “google Renegade Evolution to read more”, instead, you waited until you were pressed on the issue. You decided to slam her, from the get go, and if not pressed probably would not have given her a shot at rebuttal, and when she does show up at your place to do so, you close the thread.
”- I don't have to answer every question, and as your 'reply' to me re: Alisasays doesn't actually answer my point I'm not going to. Believe me, though, if I spot anyone dismissing an pro-porn feminist's abuse, they'll catch it. I don't put up with it in any context.”
No you don’t. You don’t have to answer every question put forth to you. No one is obligated to do that. But when you attack people, expect questions. Oh, and if you spot anyone dismissing a pro-porn feminists abuse, they’ll catch it? I’ll believe that when I see it. Poor poor poor Alisalives (might want to get her login ID right if you are going to champion her), yes, what happened to her was shitty. Her ex was a J-E-R-K. Well, take a look around and see the things people call Ren and women like her, the way she and Jill and others are treated. They are also J-E-R-K’s. Alisa was a JERK to Ren. Ren’s arm looks like a damn ashtray. Jill has been abused as well. Both have said as much, yet you (and others) still feel it’s okay to verbally abuse them. Classy. Great manners too.
”- You are not fucking scary. I'll tell you what is: chewing gum. Yeuch.”
Blah blah blah…it’s obvious women who are feminists of the non-radical kind are some sort of threat to you and other radical feminists, otherwise no radical feminist would feel the need to say how not feminist they are, or call them sparkle pony feminists, or attempt to attack their words and thoughts without allowing them to defend themselves.
”- I don't believe my arguments are weak, 'fucking' or otherwise. I have stated my positions in many posts on my blog, and (to me, at least) they seem well argued and backed-up.”
Then why not answer her questions? Is she not good enough to hear your point of view or something?
”- don't say 'they'. This is *me* you're dealing with; no-one else.”
You would have preferred not to deal with her at all. If you had wanted to, you would have said something to her directly. And the attitudes of most of your commentators defininately makes it “they”. Also, when Ren showed up to deal with you, you closed the thread. You gave no chance for dealing at all.
”- I didn't say 'geez'. I am much more likely to say 'crikey', 'blimey' or 'buggering bolluxing hell'.”
Thanks for lesson in English as it is spoken in the UK.
”- I dish and deal, as any short reading of my blog will show.”
No, you dish, then when someone shows up to disucss, you close the thread. Not much in the way of dealing there. We call that shoot and run.
“Thank you; I'm done.”
Sure, because that’s easier.
bwahahahahahahaha!! hey, Ren, you've got a ceLEBritah! or something.
(trying my best not to dwell on the somewhat icky connotations of the whole "cheated with Satan on Jesus" business).
um, sweetie: not all of us ever were Christians in the first place, you know? mazel tov on your salvation, though.
BD:
Yeah, I figgered sayin' I was never too down with the big "J" anyway wouldn't matter to her though.
Think I can ward her off with a menorah? Lead her away with some chicken soup??
SL:
And oh yeah, besides that whole I am jewish thing...please don't call me "hun" or sweetie...one, being Mongolian, that whole "hun" thing...and, well, not even people paying me get to call me sweetie...
i could only get through about 30 seconds of that video. but, Ren: apparently prawn makes you lose your femininity! hey, at least now you know for SURE you're not a "sparkle pony..."
(does Jesus approve of sparkle ponies?)
i just love that, at the same time you're having fisticuffs with ultra-radical feminists, you're getting pleas for salvation from someone (if it's really her; either way, too funny) who's touting an interview on the show by the guy who claims feminism is all about, what is it now? getting women to
"leave their husbands, kill their babies, become lesbians and practice witchcraft."
AND you've got regressive male misogynist MRA assholes! THUNDERDOME!!
Think I can ward her off with a menorah? Lead her away with some chicken soup?"
There's a bit in this obscure Polanski film called "The Fearless Vampire Killers," on the whole pretty unfunny and...well, it's Polanski, "creepy" would kind of go with the territory, but anyway it's a pisstake of vampire movies, natch. so at one point someone holds up a crucifix and the vamp in question goes,
"Oy, have YOU got the wrong vampire!"
ba DUMP bahhhh!! almost as good as "he has his Father's eyes" at the end of Rosemary's Baby...
please don't call me "hun" or sweetie...one, being Mongolian, that whole "hun" thing.
HA
"Self-preservation is important to me.”
It is to most people.
"I'm not like other people! I can't stand pain, it hurts me!"
meh.
BD: Heh, where's MasterBlaster? "Two men enter. One man leaves!"
aurelin,
I find it amusing that you not only closed the blog but you chose to censor my response to Ann Bartow calling her on the blatant misrepresentations she made to liberation feminist and about liberation feminist's points.
You didn't just close the blog, you censored at the end. Which fine, it's your blog, you have the right to do what you want, but given the post you deleted as part of closing the blog had nothing to do with you, it doesn't add up well to your answer about self preservation.
Ann made statements representing them as fact even daring one to google the events. I did and found she was misrepresenting facts and playing them off as truth. And these weren't theories about feminism that are subjective. These were objective facts about conferences. Statements she made patronizingly criticizing Liberation Feminist only to be proven that her evidence was false.
Exactly what kind of oppression are you fighting when you support blatant hostility against another feminist which is based on falsehood and distortion? And cover up the evidence through deletion?
Seems more than just self preservation. Seems like you are covering for a friend who got caught in her own web.
The long time criticism of radical feminism has been that it was just angry women that wanted to replace men being the oppressors to women being the oppressors. Your actions and those of your colleagues don't exactly undermine the theories about radical feminism
In Jesus name, I rebuke the demons gnashing at me in this den of sin!
I know that you are of pagan extraction now, but there is still hope in our Lord. He represents hope to us all, even the most skeptical, heathen-bred non-believers. Yes, this means even YOU!
Now, I am not here to judge, for only He can do that... I am simply here to bring His message to you. You must repent soon...or learn the very hard way like I did.
Please, for your own sake and our nation's, stop spreading your thighs for Satan and spread open your heart for the Lord! This is your last warning! Renounce your whoredom now!
SL:
Jews are pagans? Since when?
Listen, I am thrilled that you are happy and found Jesus and it helped you out of something you hated. That’s great, really, more power to you and I hope your life remains happy and all.
But God did also instill us with a little thing called free will, and if I chose to do this, I choose to do it, and I accept the consequences that go with it. All of them. Jews aren’t real big on hell or those sorts of things, and even if they were, I don’t think sex is the sort of thing that sends you there.
And a blog, where words live, can hardly be a den of sin.
Now, really, it’s great that you found whatever saving you needed and are happy, but please don’t go around trying to force your beliefs and views on anyone else, doing so is actually pretty rude, judgmental, arrogant, and dehumanizing. So stop.
Okay, I call chain-yanking troll on "SL." "spreading your thighs for Satan?" yeah, right. that's NOT very CHRISTIAN of you...
...and yeah, most real fundamentalist evangelists ime make noises about how "that's fine! my best friend is a Jew! let me tell you all about Him!" or some such treacle.
...and say, what's a nice Saved woman like you doing cruising the Internets at two in the morning?
troll.
Ren:
BD: Heh, where's MasterBlaster? "Two men enter. One man leaves!"
Really?? I was too busy looking at Tina Turner's (Aunty Ennity) rack and Mad Mel's ass to notice...LOL
:-)
Anthony
Charges to be dropped Wednesday against Duke Lacrosse players.
Charges to be dropped Wednesday against Duke Lacrosse players.
News media from all over the country was pouring to Raleigh/Durham Airport tonight, Tuesday, most of which stating they were there to cover a story that will break Wednesday morning that charges are being dropped against the Duke Lacrosse players that were charged with raping the exotic dancer from NCCU. While I don't know this officially, only from what reporters from CNN, News America, ABC News, Fox News and others stated in conversation was that the charges would be dropped Wednesday. I hope they are wrong but my belief is that the charges will be dropped as being stated by the reporters.
She certainly has courage trying to take Duke on in Durham, NC where the ole boys network and the vast financial strength of Duke, bias against sex workers and racism and misogyny made it virtually impossible for her to get a fair trial.
For all the rad fems that oppose the "normalization" of sex work. They can explain how the raped woman benefited by being stereotyped by all the negative myths about sex workers and sex work. All their posturing about supporting "prostituted victims" is a crock of shit when held up to the reality of something like this. A rape victim without being a sex worker would have had huge problems taking on Duke and getting justice in Durham, NC against Duke students. All the negative stereotypes against sex workers only made this worse. I would like the apradfems to explain how their work to end the sex industry did a damn bit of good for this exotic dancer and how she would have been harmed by a strong sex worker rights movement and freedom from discrimination, stigmatization and exploitation. While undoubtedly the perpetrators are responsible, not radical feminists, the radical feminist opposition to sex worker human rights didn't help the victim in this case despite the radical feminists "support" her while patronizingly referring to her in quotes as "working as an exotic dancer".
What happens to all women like this the exotic dancer in this case while they are fighting for their great victory against misogyny, patriarchy and all their other evils in some mythical battle that will end in the year 3031. Opposition to sex worker rights, did nothing for the victims of the Green River Killer and it certainly did nothing for this woman.
For all those who said the victims story wasn't plausible. They haven't been an exotic dancer at an outcall bachelor party that went wrong. I've seen it first hand when it goes wrong and it a terrible situation.
This pending dropping of charges is just another message that violence against sex workers will be tolerated, will be covered up. This is just another reason to fight for sex worker rights.
Jill:
I actually wrote about Duke previously...
Not sure if you will agree or like my take on it, but..
http://renegadeevolution.blogspot.
com/2007/01/can-of-worms-
marked-d.html
can't get the link to load
Jill:
try cut and paste on this one
http://renegadeevolution.blogspot.com/2007/01/can-of-worms-marked-d.html
I really do think its about time to drop the whole "Duke frat boys need to be prosecuted" line. There's no physical evidence the rape took place and conflicting stories between the two sex workers involved. In any system based on the presumption of innocence (something I'm glad we have in our system, call me old-fashioned), that's not enough to haul somebody into court over, much less get a conviction on.
This isn't a matter of saying that a sex worker's word isn't plausible – clearly it is. (However, in this case, where there's such disagreement between the two sex worker's involved, no matter which side you come down on, you're implying the other is lying.) Nor is a matter of thinking the frat boys in question were nice guys or not capable of this kind of thing. From all accounts, the guys behaved like assholes, and racist assholes at that, but last I checked, that in itself isn't a criminal offense.
Yes there's a power imbalance between white frat boys and black female sex workers, but a criminal case on bogus charges is not the right way to go about redressing that imbalance.
IACB:
For clarification, the duke guys were lacrosse players, not frat boys. Frat Rats get enough bad press without any help.
cut and paste gets a not found error
Jill:
Humm, worked for me...ok, use the label section on the side of my blog there, select the "law" label, scroll down, its impossible to miss, big old Duke logo in the corner.
I hope they are wrong but my belief is that the charges will be dropped as being stated by the reporters.
She certainly has courage trying to take Duke on in Durham, NC where the ole boys network and the vast financial strength of Duke, bias against sex workers and racism and misogyny made it virtually impossible for her to get a fair trial.
This pending dropping of charges is just another message that violence against sex workers will be tolerated, will be covered up.
LMAO - did you ever even read past the biased headlines and your own feminist projections in this case?
If so, you will see how the victim was granted extra sepcial credibility because she was a BLACK FEMALE STRIPPER and the Duke boys were falsely incriminated because they were WEALTHY WHITE MALES. Yes, this is the REAL WORLD today.
Basically, a polarized negative of the 60s...yes, the tables have turned now.
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