I find strange things ironic and grimly amusing.
Here are some examples: One. This woman hopes someone else has the honor to answer her. The irony here is thick. I assume she hopes they even do so in a well thought out manner.
Two. Apparently, women can call other women almost anything they want, and it's different, it's not degrading like when a man does it or is outside of a sexual context. For instance, when I suggested that Demonista calling women stupid was degrading, well, hardy har har, it's just so FUNNY, and surely not degrading like when in a porn flick, a man calls a woman a stupid whore or what have you. Apprently, the word whore or the context is what makes it degrading, calling her stupid is not, at least not if it is Demonista and her friends doing it. Or, wait wait, that's not what is really going on here...it's just that their ideas or takes on something are stupid, no one ever actually called them stupid, or something...I call bullshit. Calling a woman stupid, in any context, and in the manner done here, degrades her, and having a cunt does not excuse the behavior. And, oddly enough, on her blog, no one is consenting to or getting paid for being called stupid. In porn, that's a different story. Funny how a sexual context and Demonista's own stunning logic manages to change everything and she can suddenly dictate when someone is really, actually degraded and when they are not! Also, once again with the universal that anyone and everyone must assume being called a whore-preceeded by another word or not- is degrading!
I suppose being a valiant rebel for the cause gives one a whole special set of rules they get to play by. And that lot talking about other people's lies? Deliciously priceless.
I'm not even being mean here, I'm being stunned and grimly amused...but oddly enough, not disappointed. It's all rather predictable, actually. That is one thing you can always count on with some folk- they will always be predictable! No surprises there, ever. Ahem. Filed under typical.
And for the record, why yes, I would put my brains/logic up against hers any day of the week...and likewise those of my allies against hers, so on, so forth.
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Funny, I didn't think that was too out-of-character for Bitch.
I have to wonder if all the people who are soo shocked at this have noticed their ad exchange with $pread, or their articles about porn, or their interviews with sex worker rights activists in the fall 2006 issue?
I suppose one could make the argument that this is different because they are sponsoring an event which the people in question have some specific gripes with (more women than men being featured, ect.), but I would think that a lot of the particular people objecting would have already written Bitch off for the reasons mentioned above.
Yeah. I think it's honestly kind of strange that they're offended... I never was a big reader of Bitch, but I never had the impression that it was uncompromisingly anti-porn, like say off our backs is (was?)
I mean, I get why they don't like it, but I never would have expected a magazine called "bitch" to be staunchly anti-porn, really.
And, you know, I don't really have a huge problem with calling people stupid. But yeah, if you're going to claim that when other people do it, even in contexts that are clearly cordoned *off* from daily life, that constitutes some horrible degradation of women, it's kind of strange when you do it yourself.
-sigh- come back here, she'll bite your legs off.
look, we are talking about someone who writes RPS smutfic involving John Stoltenberg, okay?
This post is why you are far more my type of "feminist" -- even though you're an ex-pat -- than so much else of the shclock out there.
What Trin said. And this, in Demonista's post:
"women ARE the sex class"
is utter demeaning bullshit.
I loved the tone of that letter - it was straight out of the pen of "Disgusted of Tunbridge Wells" (the classic archetype of old-style conservative "outrage" writing to the newspapers)! Hilarious!
Although, Caroline @ Uncool already did the spoof far better!
look, we are talking about someone who writes RPS smutfic involving John Stoltenberg
Beyond gross. I feel ill.
DAMMIT Ren. I was having such a nice day, thinking how I had such a lovely time last night at one of the organizations she calls out as being all about the slaves and cunt torture (I remember a lot of cuddling and giggling, but my memory was apparently warped by the Patriarchy that only wants me to cuddle MEN), and then you linked this person's blog. And now I'm all down that someone this stupid and stubborn and unwilling to hear debate is out there.
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